Dear Friend,
You need to revisit your conclusion. Love never makes life boring! It's the ultimate happiness a human being can experience. It may lead someone to the level of intoxication and hence the person may become disenchanted with or disinterested in other worldly affairs, but it never takes a person towards that unpleasant condition called Boredom.
Many people mistake attraction and infatuation for love. Infatuation doesn't last; it stays with you just as a beautiful memory. We can call this as a nice short film. One would fall in love if the attraction becomes intense in a healthy way. But when the intensity gets misguided it manifests obsession. An obsessive person gets impatient, ill-tempered and aggressive. Sometimes it turns into frustration and extreme mental fatigue.
If a love story culminates in marriage and the day-to-day interactions become monotonous, mechanical, repetitive and completely predictable then boredom creeps into the relationship. In such cases the couple can break the deadly pattern by venturing out of the dull routine. The most prominent ways to do so are -
- Travel to beautiful places (at least once in every quarter)
- Watch romantic movies together
- Read love stories
- Explore new hobbies
- Spend quality time at home
Thus they can create wonderful and unique memories. In short they have to rekindle their passion and reinvent the surprise factor (pleasant though) in the relationship.
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